Toddler Sleep Regression? Here’s What to Do

One of the things I love weightier well-nigh the victual sleep training program I have ripened is that the results can be fast. In fact, many little ones can be taught to sleep on their own in just a week. And I have loved hearing from clients that their little ones are sleeping beautifully!

So the first time a former vendee tabbed me to say, “my toddler was sleeping unconfined — now he’s getting up in the middle of the night again,” I knew something worthier was going on.

I moreover knew from my wits as a registered nurse and certified victual sleep consultant that where there is a problem, there is a solution.

So I began digging into the science, interviewing clients, and subtracting courses for my students. Here’s what I found out well-nigh toddler sleep regression, and what to do if it’s happening with your child.

What is Toddler Sleep Regression?

It’s important to know that night wakings don’t unchangingly midpoint a regression. Toddler sleep regression happens when a child who was previously sleeping well, suddenly has issues with sleeping.

Unfortunately, that’s what makes it so troublemaking for parents. Your child was sleeping beautifully. Now, suddenly, they’re up at 2AM, ready to play, eat or just cry. Or they may have other sleep disturbances that seem to come out of the blue.

Here are variegated types of sleep regression your toddler or preschooler may be experiencing.

Types of Toddler Sleep Regression

(And What to Do)

Type #1: Your Child Awakens During the Night

With this type of regression, a toddler who previously slept through the night without needing a parent or caregiver, begins crying for you at night.

This does not necessarily midpoint your toddler never wakes during the night. If they are worldly-wise to self-soothe when to sleep (see my training undertow for details), this is not an very sleep regression.

What to Do:

• Go to your child. Letting them cry it out could harm your child’s trust in you.
• See if your toddler will be soothed without taking them out of their crib. Try gentle pats and quiet talking.
• If you need to pick your child up, make sure you stay tropical to the crib. Do not leave the room. It isn’t playtime. Further, taking the child yonder from something they seem leery of will reinforce to them that there is danger. Without all, Mommy is taking them away. So stay in the nursery.
• Keep the lights dim. It is sleepy time; darkness helps reinforce this.
• Put your toddler when lanugo and let them try then to fall sleep on their own.

Type #2: Your Child Won’t Fall Unconsciousness on Their Own

Some babies seem to learn to fall unconsciousness on their own. Others need a little help.

Either way, if your child has been falling unconsciousness on their own, but now they are suddenly fussy or wide-awake when you put them down, it could be a sign of a toddler sleep regression.

What to Do:

• Resist the urge to waddle your child to sleep, then transfer them to the crib. A child who falls unconsciousness in one place and awakens in flipside will be disoriented and frightened.
• Keep to your usual bedtime routine, or revamp your old one. Either way, make sure to reinforce “sameness,” night without night. Eventually your baby’s soul and mind will “remember” how to uncork getting sleepy.
• Follow the steps in Type #1 above.

Type #3: Your Child Sleeps Increasingly During the Day, Less at Night

This type of regression is roughly similar to the normal sleep habits of a newborn. Though the total hours are well-nigh equal, babies tend to nap several times a day and get up a couple of times at night.

Toddlers waif one or two naps and sleep longer at night.

If your child was in the stage of less napping, but now the daytime sleep is when and nighttime rest is out the window, this could be a regression.

What to Do:

• Take your child to the pediatrician. You should try this FIRST. A child who is sleeping more, whether during the day or at night, could be coming lanugo with something, or there may be some other reason. Get a wipe snout of health for your toddler surpassing proceeding.
• Begin gently waking your child from their daytime naps. Move gradually. If your child was sleeping for 2 hours, and now it’s 3 hours, wake her at 2.5 hours. Without a few days, wake her without 2.25 hours, and finally, at 2 hours.
• Expect your child to be a little cranky. They are trying to make up for lost sleep at night. Instead, help them get that rest when they should be getting it.

Type #4: Your Child Wants Their “Lovey” Back

I’m not versus sleep associations. A favorite toy or wrap can be a huge help with infant sleep training.

Some children hold onto their “lovey” into toddlerhood or slightly later. That’s okay, too. But if they didn’t need their lovey, and are suddenly asking for it, your toddler may be going through a sleep regression.

What to Do:

• Make sure your little one isn’t coming lanugo with a unprepossessed or other illness. It’s normal to want to be babied a bit when you’re sick — plane we grownups finger this way!
• While it’s a personal choice, I recommend permitting your child their lovey for now. Meanwhile, trammels unelevated to see if anything else might be torturous your child’s sleep.

Other Things to Consider

• Any time a habit changes significantly, it’s a good idea to trammels in with the pediatrician. Once your child gets a wipe snout of health, go superiority and try the options above.
• Has your child recently had a scare? Walking into the living room in the middle of the night while you’re watching a scary movie could be giving your little one nightmares. Or a recent run-in with a barking dog, a bigger, loud child, or anything that could be frightening, may set their sleep progress when temporarily.
• Resist the urge to say, “be a big girl” or “be a big boy.” Toddlers may rebel versus this out of a sense of a need for control, or out of fears they can’t express to you.
• Your child may be experiencing separation anxiety. There are a number of ways to write this and get your little one sleeping again. Consulting with the experts can be a unconfined way to find out what’s going on.

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