To the Parent Who Brought Their Sick Kid to Daycare and Got My Kid Sick

No matter how nonflexible we try, everyone swaps germs with everyone else this time of year. Every time you waif your kiddos off at daycare and hear a cough, a sneeze, or someone transplanting their throat (which, if we’re stuff honest, sounds like someone coughing up a lung), all you can think is, ew. Swiftly followed by, I really hope my little one doesn’t bring this home.

But that’s the nature of daycare. Kids sneeze at each other. They can be lax when it comes to washing their hands and sanitizing surpassing they touch something or put it in their mouth. Now, stuff exposed to all of this can be salubrious in towers up their immune system.

However, despite the benefits of immune building, many of us have problems when a sick child is sent to daycare. And we’re not talking sniffles that could be allergies or a dry cough that their pediatrician said was from post-nasal lard at night. We’re talking well-nigh the kid you know is unwell, but you requite them Tylenol, hoping to waif their 102-degree fever long unbearable to waif them off and get to work surpassing anyone notices (or the Tylenol wears off).

Most Parents Can Relate

Desperate times undeniability for drastic measures, we know. But bringing your sick kid to daycare is never the answer. To uncork with, when your little one doesn’t finger well, they need rest. They need relaxation. And they will not get either at daycare. You run the risk of them getting sicker or exacerbating their symptoms. On top of all that, you’re practically guaranteeing flipside parent and child the same fate. Spreading germs and viruses isn’t difficult, expressly when you’re a two-foot, boogery, worn-out small person. How do I know? Well, I’m living it.

While I don’t know the source of contagion, I have my thoughts. My daughter has noticed many of her classmates coughing, sneezing, and falling unconsciousness in matriculation occasionally for the past few weeks, then disappearing for a time. To no one’s shock or surprise, it’s made the rounds, and both she and I are miserable and in traumatization – in the privacy of our own home. But here’s the thing: I don’t vituperation parents for getting sick. Cold and flu season extends from December to February, so it’s unseat to happen. What matters is how you deal with the recovery process that gets my tissues in a bunch.

Kids Bring Those Germs Home

Oh, and you know that sickness isn’t limited to just your child and getting the rest of the matriculation sick. They bring all those glorious, germy coughs and sky-high fevers home. What happens when your child gets little Sonny sick and Sonny’s grandma, who lives with him, has a compromised immune system? As far-fetched as it might sound, it’s a realistic scenario.

Bringing your sick kid to daycare creates a ripple effect vastitude them. Unfortunately, kids and their families squatter a triple threat this school year. Unprepossessed and flu season is expressly unbearable as Covid-19, the flu, and respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) protract spreading like wildfire. Chances are slim to none that your family will go the unshortened season without picking up something.

This was the word-for-word conversation we had with our pediatrician during an yearly check-up. In November, she said things were particularly worrisome already. And no, it hasn’t gotten any better. She told my daughters that plane if they only had a cold, sniffles, or cough, it would be the right thing to do to wear a mask to school. To protect themselves as well as their classmates and teachers. So, we did. After her fever finally ceased and she had unbearable energy to return, she masked up. Did I get stares and looks that could skiver when we both showed up this way? Yeah. But at least I knew I did the right thing by keeping her home when she was genuinely sick and taking precautions to alimony her and everyone virtually her safe.

Sick Kids are a Challenge for All Parents

Having a sick kiddo is one of the most challenging parts of stuff a parent. You get stuck between the proverbial waddle and a nonflexible place. On the one hand, you finger terrible for them. You want to make them as well-appointed as possible with cuddles, soup, and cozy PJs. But on the other hand, you still must work, whether outside or inside the home.

So, to the parent who brought their sick kid to daycare and got my kid sick—not to mention me—I get it. But I moreover implore you, on behalf of other kids, parents, teachers, and plane your little one, next time, alimony them home. Not only will they get largest faster, but who doesn’t love a good movie marathon with warm drinks, comforting food, and lots of snuggles?